I started killing the TRang, cause, lets face it, they suck, and I hope I can still beat the game. I left the "kill the Rapax" mission unfinished cause I couldn't figure out where to put the perfume,>> Do a very detailed search of 1) Your journal/chat history 2) Marten's bluff (poke and prod buttons) and if that doesn't work 3) this board.
and I've left the idol in Upper Marten's bluff, because I don't know how to get my guy back if I take it,
>>The flower is the clue, the solution is probably on this board somewhere... do a search for idol ;)
and I don't know if I even can get him back with the TRang as enemies. I've got the note from ZAnt for the Mooks, but is that all I need from the TRang?
>>I think you need *a* note a some point.
Also how do I get rid of all my junk. Does the Trynnie chemist make potions or items, and if so, how do I get him to?
..Camp or combine. Search for recipies on this board 
Lastly, I don't want a total spoiler, but could someone help me understand the few things which are absolutely vital to beating the game,
..I'm nowhere near there myself.. but I get there are 3 important objects you need, and a bit of info about them..
so I don't freak out about all the other missions and details (although they are also fun). I basically just wanna know what absolutely has to happen in the game, so I know if I have to start over.
..Most likey you can pick up where you are now... you 'faction' rating might be suffering, but from what I hear there are ways near the end of the game to 'pull it out of the fire' if you get my drift.